Spiral of Silence.
This is one thing my boyfriend and I always fight about. When I'm mad or when I'm not happy with something I'd rather not talk about the issue. Usually I'd just keep quiet because i want him to figure it out by himself but its just impossible. He can sense that something is wrong but he can never really find out exactly what it is. I have to accept that he's not Edward Cullen, the very handsome vampire who can read minds. . hahaha.
Last weekend he asked me to invite my friends to go out. I text messaged my friends and they agreed. Everything was set we were just waiting for his friends to arrive so we can leave. When his friends came they wanted to go some place else. He agreed without asking me and I got really mad. I didn't tell him though, when we reached the car he asked me what was wrong. I said, "Its nothing, it will pass don't worry" but of course he wanted me to blurt out whatever I was thinking. In the end, I didn't tell him. I kept quiet.
We talked about the issue just yesterday and I promised the next time I felt unhappy I would talk to him about it because that's just how relationships work. Communication is a very big factor especially because we are in a long distance relationship. Next time I will definitely voice out my feelings.Posted by samitoot at Friday, February 27, 2009 0 comments
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